Mediating Language

As I wrote my last blog post my friend was next to me critiquing my writing. I thought to myself how he has not learned the art of mediating language, and how harsh tone and words can be. Because of the lack of mediating language, I felt like I wanted to listen to him less. I now understand the usefulness and necessity of mediating language. In order to formulate a strong argument or point against another person, the use of condescending words and rude tone creates a negative environment for both parties involved. In order to have proper communication with other people and give a constructive criticism, an individual should point out both the good along with the bad, so that the individual is inclined to listen more. I thought back to the time where we talked about different methods of communication like stated in the they say, I say article. If something is given a more approach in the "they say" it is more credible that personal opinion. If a person argues against an idea or decision you have made in your writing they should not only disapprove what you have to say, but give a solid reason to why they think another way is more effective. I am glad we learned about mediating language, so I could calmly respond to him effectively and write this blog post instead to execute my anger.